Trust, hope and love with all your heart

On the contrary:

Trust, hope and love with all your heart - anything less is insincere and will cost you dearly.

Anytime you feel like you love somebody too much, in fact you love her not enough - because if you'd love her with all your heart it would never occure to you.

It is when you expect reciprocation that you start getting anxious - and that is not love, for love doesn't expect anything in return. And the law of attraction gives you back what you're concentrated on - your worry that you loved her too much, that you can lose what you invested materializes and you're left alone and devastated.

But it wasn't love...